Home Helpers

If you have a senior loved one who obviously needs a little extra help, here are four tips to start a discussion on in-home care.

1. Emphasize the positive: Point out the many things they can still do on their own. Talk about their freedom to make choices and assure them they will still be in charge.
2. Discuss what a caregiver can do for them: Look for tasks your loved one doesn't enjoy and point out how a caregiver can help. Would they like to have their meals prepared for them? Do they want someone to run to the store for groceries? Could they use some help with cleaning? Making decisions together can open the doors to change.
3. Talk to the doctor: Sometimes hearing the encouragement of a physician can help overcome resistance to an in-home caregiver. At the very least, the recommendation can open doors to further discussion.
4. Interview caregivers together: Make the decision with your loved one. They shouldn't feel as though this is something being forced upon them without their input. If they know their opinion is valued, they might feel more in control and be more accepting of in-home care.